age differences between spouses

[مدينيه عسل]

Is age an important factor for a successful marriage ? . Some of u will say YES and the others will say No .Personally , if I were to choose between two men , I will most likely choose the one who is closer to my age .Close in age , creates more understanding and harmony between spouses .Imagine 20 year age difference between spouses!!!! . Absolutely , they'll face many differences in their opinions , life style , the way the think ….. etc . Surely, that will create many problems which in most cases lead to Misunderstanding . On the other hand , we find that any girl who gets married to an old man faces the problem that her husband treats her as if she was his little daughter how should obey him blindly coz he knows what is the best for her.
So girlsssss
If u r planning 2 get married, keeeep in ur minds age differences .
Do ya agree ????




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[Utopia]

dear pal,
I think age is not an accurate measurment in such a case..we cant judge the success of marriage from this limited narrow scope..i've been engaged once to an old guy but it didnt work and we broke up, not cuz of the massive difference between our ages nor the way of thinking .. actualy i found out that maturation is a critical point and its plays the main role in imarriage life..

The term maturation doesnt refer to the years we've passed and been through but refer to the out come of the person experience i.e. how do we act? how do we responses
..
Gettin' marry to someone closes in the age may cuz many problems too and sometimes divorcement will be the first guest that shows up in the horizon.. we all knows that glz reaches maturation before guyz by about 5 years.. so girlz needs someone older than them by 5 years at least.. to fill the gap between the minds after the sousl, where the souls get matches by default from the first eyes shot or first meating..
Anyway its really complicated and hard equation to solve then

whats the accurate measurment ??
lest c what will the others say?

[NaSa]

I don't think age could matter except in the arab world, though our Profet Moh'd( P.U.H) has proved the opposit.
regardless how old these two people are (looking for any chance hahaaa). In my personal point of view, I think chemistry comes first .